As an experienced photographer in Oklahoma City, I have helped many families capture special moments through family photos that feel genuine and timeless. Whether you’re planning fall or Christmas family photos or even considering capturing the moments yourself, a little preparation goes a long way.
Here are some of my best family photo tips gained from years behind the camera to help you get the most out of your family portraits.
1. Find the Right Photographer (Even If It’s You!)
Choosing the right photographer can make or break your family photo experience. When hiring a photographer, find one whose style matches your vision.
Do you prefer candid, lightly posed photos or more traditional family portraits? Are you drawn to editing that has bold timeless color, a bright and airy feel, or is soft and muted? Review the photographer’s portfolio, client reviews and recent sessions on their website.
If you choose to DIY your family photos, start prepping now. Purchase or borrow a tripod. Make sure you know how to set up the timer functions on your phone or camera. Then, set a date on your family’s calendar.
My ideal session time is about an hour before sunset – that Golden Hour light just can’t be beat.
2. Determine Your Perfect Family Photo Location
The location of your shoot sets the tone for your family portraits. For fall family photos, consider outdoor spots with natural beauty. Great options include Myriad Gardens, Will Rogers Park and Bricktown.
Urban settings can bring a modern, sophisticated edge to your photos, while natural landscapes are timeless. Check out these favorite reader recommendations here.
3. What to Wear for Family Portraits
Picking the perfect outfits can feel overwhelming, but I recommend that moms start with themselves first. Find an outfit that feels flattering, comfortable and appropriate for your location. For instance, a short flowy skirt wouldn’t be great on a rooftop with our Oklahoma wind!
Choose a color palette that compliments the season, such as rich jewel-toned hues in the fall or classic neutrals for Christmas time. Coordinate rather than match by layering textures and patterns for added interest.
Don’t forget that this is also a good time to visit the barber, especially for the short-haired members of your family. Small details like trim nails, ironed clothing and freshly brushed teeth make a difference!
4. Relax…. But Don’t Say Cheese
The key to great family photos is to relax! My favorite family portraits are the ones that feel natural and authentic, not overly posed. Instead of having everyone stiffly say “cheese,” focus on interacting with each other. Play, laugh, cuddle or walk together.
Don’t be too rigid. A good photographer will guide you into flattering positions but keep things loose so you can be yourselves. I love to play games during family photo sessions to add natural laughter and movement. Plus it keeps the experience engaging for everyone.
5. Whatever You Do, Don’t Do This
Every modern photographer’s worst nightmare is family photos that live and die on a digital device. Don’t let your photos sit hidden on your hard drive or in a cloud somewhere. Make sure to print, display and share your family portraits!
Printing your photos transforms those fleeting moments into lasting memories that you can enjoy every day. Printed photos celebrate the people you love. Frame a print or select the perfect pose for a holiday card for friends. You can even create an album to pass down through generations.
About the author:
Missy Mayo is an Oklahoma City family photographer who delivers magazine-worthy images with an unmatched blend of sentiment and scenery. Her creative approach captures candid, playful moments that feel personal and timeless. She photographs families, high school seniors and travel sessions. Learn more at missymayophotography.com.
