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Kids Need Dads

As I think about the importance of parenthood, fathers come to mind. Many professionals think “parent” and correlate it with "mother." I mean, mothers are typically the ones who take children to the doctor, stays home from work when children are ill, volunteers at school or homeschool her children. Mothers are the ones that professionals deal with more frequently than fathers.  

I have worked with some amazing fathers as a child advocate and hope they know how important their role is. I encourage you to tell a father how important he is today! Encourage fathers to be active in their children's lives. There is no one that can replace their influence. Kids need dads!

Here are some facts about fathers if you need some evidence about the importance of active fathers.

“The single most important childhood factor in developing  empathy and clear values is paternal involvement.”  
(Twenty Six Year Longitudinal Study, Koestner, Franz and Weinberger (1990))

“The research is clear…The one human being most capable of  curbing the antisocial aggression of a boy is his biological father.”
 - Shawn Johnson, Forensic Psychologist

Traci Castles, Coordinator
Family Voices in Oklahoma

1 comment (Add your own)

1. Vickie Edwards wrote:
Yes, fathers are important. But you know, stats like this are a stab in the heart of a single mom. So the statement from Shawn Johnson would imply that my son, who does not have a father and a grandfather that has no interest in his life, will be an aggressive antisocial human being.
I'm not sure one can determine which human being is most capable of curbing undesirable characteristics. If I believed otherwise, I would live in a constant state of discouragement.
I started reading Dr.Dobson's book about raising boys. I had to put it down, so I would not stay depressed. He sites many, many stats about how only father can really speak into a boy's life, in certain areas (I have purposely put exact details out of my mind). My heart was so crushed while reading the book. I know that wasn't his purpose, but how could a mother possibly feel any other way.
He doesn't leave any room for God's grace and provision. Add my son's diagnosis of Asperger's and God's grace is my only confidence. Thanks,Vickie

May 8, 2008 @ 3:11 PM

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