Finding Mom Balance
June 2011
07/01/11Finding a Way to Work TogetherUnfortunately, there is no rule book issued to us when we become parents, and especially when co-parenting with an ex. |
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06/18/11Happy Father’s Day!Last month, I dedicated my Mother’s Day blog to my mom and shared what I have gleaned over the years from my mom. So, it is fitting that in honor of Father’s Day, I share what I have gleaned from my dad. |
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06/10/11Balancing ActIt really doesn’t matter if you are a single mom, stay-at-home or working mom, a mother to one child or to six, time seems to always be against us. The person we most neglect is ourselves and most of the time, we don’t even realize it. |
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06/04/11Curious Questions from an Outgoing Four-Year-OldAs moms, we all have funny stories to share about things our children say out in public. I’m sure you’re thinking of one or two stories off the top of your head right now. But, the last thing I want to do is offend someone or hurt someone’s feelings by my very curious four-year-old. |
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05/20/11Prom NightA couple weeks ago, I went to dinner at one of the restaurants along Lake Hefner. While we were waiting for a table, I saw at least 50 prom dresses. Of those 50 dresses, I only saw about four that I thought were appropriate. |
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05/13/11Girls Will Be GirlsI am really surprised to be saying this already, but my four-year-old is already dealing with a “mean girl” at her school. Having gone through several mean girls in my lifetime, I completely understand what she is going through, but had no idea it started as early as four. |
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05/07/11Happy Mother's DayAs moms, we can’t help but garner what our mothers taught us when we are raising our own children. It’s what we are used to, so it is easy to take the good things our own moms did for us into account when raising our own kids. I have learned so much about being a mom and about life from my own mom and I want to share what I have gleaned. |
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04/28/11A Surprising Single Parent Statistic?The Associated Press released a new statistic today that one in four children in the United States is being raised by a single parent. This article doesn’t really surprise me since I know a lot of fellow single parents out there; however, it did bring to light a lot of questions about why the U.S. doesn’t have more support programs in place for single parents. |
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04/16/11Preschool vs. DaycareAt the end of the day, as moms, we have to trust our instincts and do what we feel is the best thing for our child(ren). That isn’t always easy but I feel as long as Addie’s needs are always my top priority, then I will hopefully do the right thing. Posted at 12:10 AM | Permalink | Comments: 1 |
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04/10/11Overusing “Good Job!”My initial reaction was that you can never say good job enough to your kids but I know my friend wouldn’t have sent it unless it was very thought provoking and helpful, so I continued to read. I am so glad I did because it made me think of those two words that I overuse with my daughter in a whole new light. Posted at 04:55 PM | Permalink |
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04/10/11Let's Hear It for Mom-to-Mom SupportFrankly, it takes very little effort to support other mothers. So, the next time you see that disheveled and fatigued mother desperately trying to appease her sick child at the pharmacy, please just smile at her. It won’t make her troubles go away, but it certainly will help encourage her in completing her unfortunate task. Posted at 01:03 AM | Permalink |
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04/10/11These Little WondersHave you ever listened to the words of Rob Thomas’ song “Little Wonders”? The song was played in the movie “Meet the Robinsons” and is a beautiful song that could serve as an anthem for parenting. Posted at 12:59 AM | Permalink |
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04/10/11Teaching Your Children about PhilanthropyThe question is, how do we instill this thankfulness in our children? How do we teach them to count their blessings every day? Posted at 12:56 AM | Permalink |
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04/10/11Confident vs. Conceited—Thoughts on Raising a Self-Confident ChildThe question is, where is the line drawn between confident and conceited? How have other parents handled situations like these which resulted in self-confident adults? Posted at 12:49 AM | Permalink |
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04/10/11Liar, LiarIn the beginning, I just thought it occurred because she didn’t know the difference between play time creativity and real life, but in recent weeks, I have discovered she does understand the difference. I am trying my best to nip this in the bud early and quickly, but I am yet to be successful. Posted at 12:45 AM | Permalink |
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04/10/11Can't We All Just Get Along?What I think some women are forgetting is, we are all in this together, and by criticizing other moms just so she can prove how much she knows can be hurtful. I think moms should be able to lean on each other for support, and sometimes the best thing someone can do is listen. Posted at 12:42 AM | Permalink |
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04/10/11Always the Bad Guy...In my own perfect world, my little girl and I could be best friends and live happily ever after, shopping together and having a great time. Reality is, I am a single mom and it is imperative that I discipline her. Posted at 12:38 AM | Permalink |
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01/16/11Happy New YearNewly-single mom Rebecca gives her take on going through big changes and how that makes a person stronger. |
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01/11/11What to Do About Mommy GuiltMommy guilt. Two little words, that as soon as I type them together, my heart starts racing. |
Rebecca Lucas is a working mom who has a three-year-old sweet and sassy girl named Addison. She is always on a quest for a suitable work-life balance and tries to fit in as much mommy time into her day that she possibly can. Rebecca has lived in Oklahoma City for most of her life and has been in the public relations field for more than 14 years. She is passionate about motherhood and her career and is excited to have the opportunity to share her thoughts, her struggles and her triumphs with MetroFamily Magazine readers (and to learn from them, too).
